What or why say that??? I want her happy and I'd love to share her

 

You got some really great advice tonight. But it all comes down to what you really wanna do, we can only suggest.

I read in one of your posts, that you would like to meet a girl who would take charge .Then I suggest you get yourself married. You'll have no say in picking out paint for the bedroom, living room, let's just say every room in the house. When you ask your darling wife if she could make meatloaf tonight, she'll throw you a Stouffer's frozen dinner. When she wants to go apple picking, she's fuckin going, forget about Sunday football. Take your fucking shoes off before coming into the house, yes dear, sorry dear, it'll never happen again. There's more, but I don't wanna take the surprise and excitement out of it for you

 

It just seems that way, cuckolds share their wives lol , like let them go out and she tells you all about it when she gets home. Well she then would be a hotwife and you if not a cuckold then a stag maybe ?

 

Why am I a cuckold

 

It is a huge turn on yes... it even if she lied and said she did I would love it... I get so turned on imagining her getting fucked... she is beautiful

 

Dude, just break it off and move on. She will never be ok with it and will constantly throw it back on you when shes angry.
She will never trust you.
Next time be honest and upfront with your partner beforehand.

Get some dick before starting up with another woman, you might not go back.

 

I do appreciate your reply I really do and I was going to move on she's the one who keeps texting saying she loves me and wants to go to counseling so I'm going to set up counseling but I'm not going to see anybody or her until we do counseling I don't know if I want dick or not it's a turn-on to talk about taboo stuff but to actually do it I don't know if I could but I do appreciate your opinion

 

Thank you... it is something to think about and she is pushing so hard to move in when we cannot go 2 weeks without a huge fight

 

She apparently is not into the sharing lifestyle you would want and expects you to me monogamous. If you want to stay with her on these terms, it's clear what is expected of you.

But in her next anger explosion you must tell her that you won't accept that behavior anymore. I get the impression that she does not want you and her to split up. So tell her that next time she get outraged like that, it's over. See what she says when she finds out that you can stand up for yourself.

 

I stood up this last time and told her that's it I'm done... we were going down the freeway and she got mad and threw coffee on me and all over my dash and windshield...
I was furious and she said let me out and I pulled over she said no you are taking me home...
I didnt say anything, I put my truck in gear and drove her straight to the police station and dropped her off... I told the cops her temper is ridiculous and she will be safe here as she waits for someone to come get her... she lived 60 miles away and I left her there... it's been a week now and she is begging me to set up counseling and wants us to work it out..
I don't know how much longer I can do this... there has to be a woman out there I would love to be with , without the constant fights for no reason ,maybe she would like the lifestyle I would want...

 

Trudge on??

 

Ok, so I'm seeing a couple things here, she definitely has anger management issues as stated above. Counseling could be a plus but it really depends, she may have a deeper issue here. Maybe she is into the sharing/fucking other guys thing and can't process it because its not "normal". Or she's bat shit crazy. You gotta do what's right for you man, one of my longer relationships and the mother of my kid went ballistic overnight. I loved her and all, whole nine yards. Wanted to fix it and solve the problems she had. But with her, counseling was like shooting a .22 at a tank. After a year and a half of trying to fix things and dealing with her self destructing it was over. To this day I still have no idea what happened with her.

 

So I'm guessing you actually get what I'm dealing with, her anger issues were before she saw the messages on my phone.. she hit me in the eye a year before I talked to that guy...
I think her divorce really got to her , she was married to a Coronal in the airforce who cheated on her with a big titted blonde.. she filed for divorce immediately and I think she regrets it.. her lifestyle she had ,money I guess he makes a lot but is married to that blonde now
I think she is still mad at him

 

dump her , the bitch is crazy !

 

She's not gunna change

 

What makes you think she won't change... I'm wanting to give this a try with counseling and she needs anger help...
I am so close to saying I can jack off and be happy... she isn't fucking me very often anymore very often

 

I think you are right ... it takes a self conscious effort for sure

 

Imagine going through divorce proceedings with her!! - dividing up your money and belongings, maybe even the house and children, if you get that far.
Why you would even contemplate a relationship with someone who hits you when angry?
Drop her immediately, ignore her attempts to reconcile. Your hope that all can be righted is seriously misplaced, laughable even.
Save yourself from all this misery and follow the advice of @seafoam1 (above, from 1/9/20, 9:49 pm) Everything he said will help you.

 

It is over. She does not want to be the one that says it but she is acting it. She will never understand or accept that you were talking to a guy about his dick and had pictures of it. Don’t make that mistake again. Be nice but be out of it.

 

Honestly I think this all sounds like BS to me.

But on the basis this is true I would ask you why the fuck you want a toxic, violent relationship with someone based on lies, dishonety and a lack of respect.

I can tell you where this will end up and who will come out of this worse.