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  1. cumwithus

    cumwithus Porn Star

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    Before I was married I thought when you hear people saying you were not going to have sex anymore was a joke. Well spoiler alert, it is true. Life gets in the way.

    So on the rare occurrences you do have sex with your significant other, what days are they?

    For me, it is usually:
    • My birthday
    • Once during any out of town trip (So if we visit the beach for a week, I get some ass one night.
    • After my company Christmas party
    When do you married couples do it?
     
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      I agree. When I got married I could not have in a billion years imagined that I would be in the position I am. She just doesnt like sex.
       
      Rothko, Dec 28, 2016
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      Join the club....
       
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  2. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    We have no prescribed days. Wish we did, at least then I would have something to fucking look forward to! We do tend to have hotel sex when we are out of town. But even that is not a given.
     
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  3. deleted user 1548766

    deleted user 1548766 Porn Star Banned!

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    So I guess that my brother was right when he said that I, a single confirmed bachelor dude, was the smart one. :D
     
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  4. newlicker

    newlicker Porn Star

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    ok , we been married for 30 years , the 1st 10 years we did it 2-3 times a day ! after 10 years we slowed down to maybe every other day !now after 30 years we still are doing it 2-3 times a week ! I have Never turn my husband down for sex ! and he's never turned me down !
     
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      Just like us Newlicker been together over 30 years. This year in particular we have been at it most days (probably 4+ times a week). We intend to keep that up for as long as we can. We are no longer young lovers but the sex gets better and better!
       
      woogieuk, Dec 29, 2016
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      us to , been married 34 years now and still 2-3 times a week
       
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  5. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    What a glorious marriage you must have. Good for you both.
     
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  6. Splashgirlx

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    I just got engaged and no plans for less sex!
     
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      Congratulations! @Splashgirlx
      It's up to you both to put in the effort.
      Good luck!
       
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  7. Supash

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    That very rare day she can't live with her guilt, I'd say of every 100 orgasms I have there would be one that I'm not alone
     
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  8. HornyCristina

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    We have been married for many years and the 2-3 times a day days are over, but we still do it at least a couple of times a week (sometimes more).
     
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  9. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    Congratulations! Hope you have a long and joyful marriage filled with exciting sexual adventures!
     
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  10. James Tiberius Kirk

    James Tiberius Kirk Porn Surfer

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    20 years. My wife told me yesterday that she wants to give me a blowjob a day next year. Happy new year to me. Not likely to happen but as they say a positive attitude is a good start. Listen, practically, the amount of sex trails off over time. There are a lot of variables involved. Some externalities like kids, life, work, travel and busy-ness. Then there are the internal factors that I think we allude to in our thoughts and some comments - familiarity being the biggest one. Complacency. Lack of effort in general. Marriages, for the most part, experience slippage over time. 2-3 times a week is average right now.
     
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  11. Rothko

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    No special day, not birthdays or anniversaries when you might hope that she might just grin and bear it to be nice.

    A couple of times a year she gets in the mood but predicting when that will be is impossible and comes mostly without warning
     
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  12. Double Dee

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    We still do it most days. I hadn't realised that was unusual.
     
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      365 days a year divided by 52 carry the 1 amd minus the...errm Thats a lot.

      Joking aside I am happy for you guys, treasure it.

      We were never most days, but were a few times a week, now I couldn't say it was a few times a year
       
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  13. speakeasy

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    We've been married for a couple of decades and while the frequency has declined, we're both still pretty active together.
    It seems to help that we're always looking for something to spice things up with but we try not to forget the old fashioned "making love" instead of just fucking.
     
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  14. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    Ditto.
     
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  15. Bron Zeage

    Bron Zeage I am a river to my people

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    We have a standing date for Sunday. It starts whenever we decide to get up. All our friends and employees learned to never call before 3 in the afternoon.
     
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  16. lilmonkeygirl_42

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    I don't believe this is a general rule for married people. Husband and I have been together a total of 16 years this March, while sex has definitely changed over the years we still have a healthy sex life. The only dip for us was after our crotch spawn arrived, postpartum hormones were death to my libido! Though I did still give him blow jobs during that period. His sex drive is much lower than mine, I definitely initiate most encounters & have felt the sting of rejection when he's not in the mood. I have learned to not take that personally, helps that we have an open relationship & I can fill my needs elsewhere.
     
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      "Crotch Spawn" I had never laughed so hard! That is funny!!!
       
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  17. vincenzz

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    I've been married forever, fortunately, for the most part we 've been keeping
    our Saturday night ritual year round.

    We're raising children, maintaining a household, work fulltime and take care of elderly parents
    I can go for more than once a week but she's too wiped out

    however when on vacation we will usual do it daily at least
    xmas eve & new year's eve is usu a definite, same for our birthdays
    usu my b-day was the night i was allowed to take a camera into the bedroom

    {side note}
    I have a weekly planner (calendar) by my desk at work, and
    I put a checkmark on the days we have sex then tally the numbers end of the year, like now.
    I originally started for fun but kept it going for quite some time now.

    actually we did it more this year than last! ha
     
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  18. Devil's Bastard

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    Wednesdays, Saturdays and Sundays. Those are the usual special days.
     
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  19. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    I've learned not to raise my expectations for a particular day, that tends to let me down more then just feeling out the week or weekends.
     
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      I really get that. It's tough for me to do, but i think it's a good idea to approach it that way.
       
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      It was just as tough for me, but I had to make changes! When birthdays and anniversaries would yield nothing I didn't like that feeling of being put aside which feels very personal and not rationalizing the reasons for why it happened rather then lashing out.
       
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  20. ericstubbs

    ericstubbs Sex Lover

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    Christmas day.
    Not the last one - or the one before that - but I think the one before that.
    Bloody marvellous - before we were married she was handing it around as though it was going out of fashion.
    As soon as I said "I do!" - she said "I won't" ... and it has been iron rations ever since.
    Marriage - just one big con!
     
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